Wedding Reception Entertainment Tips
By Doug McAlexander
Manager,
Arsis Productions![]()
Budgeting for a Band
Hiring a "live" band is a great way to ensure a "lively" reception that will create lasting memories you will cherish for decades. As the years pass by and you pull out the wedding album for a romantic moment by the fireplace, you will see wonderful memories that your photographer captured on film. (Assuming you followed my advice in an earlier article about finding a good variety band)
The following suggestions are intended to help you prioritize your budget and get a great band.
The atmosphere WITHOUT live entertainment
Think of receptions you have attended. If there was no band or deejay, you probably were drawn to the flower arrangements, the ice sculpture, the cake, food, etc. You probably didn’t stay very long either. You shook a few hands, hugged the bride and groom and were "outta there."
The atmosphere WITH live entertainment
With a band, or with any live entertainment for that matter, anyone entering the room is immediately drawn to the sound and what is producing it. Sad but true, flowers, and décor become secondary interests. The pace of the reception will be in the hands of the entertainer.
Prioritize
Remember that your guest's attention will be drawn to the music as soon as they enter the room. And if you have a real party band, they will not be as interested in how elaborate your floral arrangements are, nor will they want to eat so much that they are too stuffed to dance. A seated dinner or fancy buffet is not a requirement when your focus is a party atmosphere. There is certainly nothing wrong with either a seated dinner or a fancy buffet, if you have the budget. In fact, my band plays a special group of songs we call "dinner music", especially suited for the earlier part of a reception when everyone is eating and drinking. But your guests will most likley eat another three meals the next day. The food will soon be forgotten. However the excitement that they experienced during hours of dancing will create a lasting memory about your reception. Mixed Company has had numerous clients tell us about how they "...went to a brunch at the club 6 months after the wedding and our friends were still talking about the band and how much fun they had." Below is a very revealing poll taken by www.weddingzone.net regarding the most important element for a wedding reception. The response is overwhelmingly in favor of entertainment as the most important element of the reception, coming in at 46%, with food in second place at 25%.
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POLL RESULTS
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What do you think the most important
element of the Wedding Reception is...
Don't let your budget dictate the quality of the performance, let the quality of the performance dictate your budget. Consider this analogy: I remember when I could buy a bag of potato chips for twenty-nine cents and the bag was full. Nowadays that same bag costs fifty-nine cents and it is full of air. So at 2:00 in the morning when I stop off for a bag of chips on my way home from a "gig" I have to decide whether I will let my budget, the standard rate of fifty-nine cents, determine how many chips I get, or let my wallet (how much money I have to spend) decide. For $1.69 I can get the premium bag of chips with about the same amount of chips I was accustomed to in the twenty-nine cent days. If I have $2.00 in my wallet, then maybe I will let my wallet decide what I get, rather than my budget. I may have to forgo the Coke, but by golly I got the chips I wanted. Are you going to let your budget force you into buying a cheap bag of air, or are you going to "flex" your budget and live for the moment? In this case, the moment happens only once. Lay's will make more potato chips for next time, in case I chose the bag of air, but there is no next time for your wedding day. When it is over it goes into the history books, under one of three chapters, disastrous, mediocre, or spectacular.
Get the best
Be very wise in budgeting for your band and allow enough to get the best. Be realistic in your expectations. You are probably expecting the band to supply their own transportation and service vehicles, load-in and set-up crew, talented musicians, thousands of dollars worth of instruments, expensive state-of-the art sound system, lighting, pre-recorded music for the breaks, and the technical knowledge and experience to put on a phenomenal show that will make or break your event. Consider this: Just renting the kind of sound and lighting equipment that a professional band would use to do the job right could cost between $1500 and $3500. Most bands purchase their own sound and lighting equipment, but they have to amortize the initial cost and maintenance of the equipment into every performance. This is less expensive than if you, the client, were forced to rent the sound and lighting at $1500 to $3500, but nonetheless the cost has to be covered. When you add in logistics costs such as equipment storage, transportation, insurance, legal and accounting fees, office supplies, demos, brochures, telephone, advertising, etc., a professional band will easily have $1500-$2000 per performance invested before they ever put a musician on stage. If you get a quote from a band that seems too good to be true, it probably is just that. You wouldn't expect a top of the line Mercedes for the price of a Kia would you? The saying, "you get what you pay for", is never more true than in a wedding market that is flooded with so many "cheesy" bands. Find out what the going rate is for the best wedding reception bands in your area and budget accordingly. The truth is that there is usually only about $500 to $1000 difference in price between a hobby band and a good professional band, $1000 to $1500 difference between the hobbyists and a great professional band. If your guests go home early because you booked a "budget band" that couldn't hold everyone's interest and maintain flow, your caterer will most likely wind up throwing out thousands of dollars worth of food that wasn't eaten -- perhaps wasting the amount of money needed to have had a professional variety band in the first place. You do your special event the greatest service by booking a reputable professional band that has the years of experience necessary to make your reception flow at the perfect pace. You can usually save the amount you need to make the difference between getting an "okay" band or a great band by trimming the flower and food budget. But be sure you are speaking with a professional wedding band, not just a band that does weddings "on the side" to "fill in" an opening in their calendar. A professional wedding band should be able to provide a list of wedding receptions they have played and prove that is their focus. My band, Mixed Company, maintains a Web page with numerous E-mails, cards, letters, and even voice mails from past clients, so our visitors can feel secure in knowing that the band has the experience necessary to make their big day the best it can be. You can review this page at www.mixedcompany.com/letters.html.
Get the best value
Another point to be careful of when getting price information together is the size of the band. Be careful how you ask for the size of the band. If you ask how many members are in the band, you will get a body count. That may or may not be useful information. Let me explain. Some bands have separate singers and instrumentalists. If you ask them how many members are in the band, they may say ten. And when they quote you a price of say $3500 for 4 hours, it sounds like a very good deal compared to a band that may quote $3000 for 6 people. $350 per musician versus $500, right? Don't get caught in the trap of dividing the price by the number of musicians to measure the value. Remember the equipment and logistics cost is factored in there too, so not all of the money is divided among the entertainers anyway. What you really want to measure is how full the sound will be. What you are paying for, beyond their experience in performing for wedding receptions, is the "fullness" of their sound. The 6-member band may have 6 instrumentalists, 4 of whom are also vocalists, so for $3000 you get the same amount of sound as a 10-piece band which is made up of 6 instrumentalists and 4 vocalists. And you save $500 in this example. See how that works? Be very careful not to get snared by thinking in terms of headcount versus dollars. Incidentally, the prices used in my example are not necessarily standard and certainly do not represent any particular market area. I just used them for comparison purposes.
The bottom line
In twenty years when you look through your photo album, I bet you will prefer pictures of your guests dancing to pictures of them eating. Get the best band you can find. For tips about finding the best band, read my article entitled, "How To Find A Good Variety Band."
I hope you have found this article helpful. Please feel free to contact me if you have a question I have not covered in one of these articles. I make this advice available for no charge, as I endeavor to raise the bar of excellence with regard to wedding entertainment.
Doug McAlexander - Arsis Productions
E-mail: doug@arsisproductions.com
Links to other related articles:
How To Shop For Just The Right Variety Band
Getting The Most Value From The Band You Hire
Coordinating Bands And Facilities
What About The New Swing Music Craze?
How To Guarantee That Your Band Will Show Up
Wedding Reception Entertainment Q & A
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